Are You Ready to Die?
I realize this is a difficult question to hear much less to think about, but it IS a reality. The unfortunate thing is no one plans for it. Truthfully, it will not affect us. We will be dead. It is our loved ones who will have to deal with all the repercussions of our unwillingness to face the obvious.
This became so clear to me as I was going through my parent’s things with my Mom. Thankfully, she is highly organized! I asked her to show me where things are kept – wills, powers of attorney, extra checks, log in information, statements, keys… Since she handles all this for her and my Dad, if something happened to her first, he would not know where these things are. My sisters and I will need to step in to help him.
The conversation is not easy to initiate, but wow what a great feeling it is to have and it. I know where my Mom keeps all their important papers and how to access her accounts when needed. The last thing I care to be concerned about when she is either ill or dying is how to pay her cable bill. I want to spend that time caring for her and loving on her. And, I want to feel free to enjoy both my parents for as long as I can.
Thanks to my Mom, my sisters and I can do just this. What an amazing a selfless gift she has given us! Now, that is true love.
Nine months from today is National Healthcare Decisions Day. This day, April 16th, is about having these conversations and getting your advance directives completed. Consider marking your calendar for an event near you.
Once you complete your advance directives, plan to get all your other important papers together for your loved ones by using The HAINES System™ This is a simple yet comprehensive system to guide you through collecting all your important documents and detailed information associated with them in one place. You can then tell your family, friends, professionals that you have completed your system and it is all easy to see and follow. It takes the worry out of the process.
Retire the Worry, Not Your Life!™